If you’re wondering how to elope and create a wedding day that’s intimate, meaningful, and true to your story, you’re in the right place. Eloping is more than just a wedding without the crowd-it’s about crafting a deeply personal, authentic experience that reflects your love story in a way that feels right for you. As an adventure elopement photographer specializing in photojournalistic photography, I’m here to guide you through the process of how to elope, so your day is filled with genuine moments, stunning backdrops, and memories that last a lifetime.
Learn Everything You Need to Know About How To Elope With This Guide
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How to Elope: Step-by-Step Guide
How to Elope Step 1: Dream and Brainstorm Your Perfect Elopement
Start by imagining your ideal elopement day. Think about the kind of adventure you want-whether it’s exchanging vows on a mountaintop, beside a waterfall, or in a quiet forest. Don’t worry about logistics yet; just dream big and let your imagination run wild. Write down the places, times of year, and vibes that feel right to you. This is about creating a vision that excites you both.
Bonus Tip: Create a vision board on Pinterest or Instagram to visualize your dream elopement.
Step 2: Set Your Elopement Budget
Elopements can be as simple or as elaborate as you want. Decide what’s most important to you-whether it’s an epic location, stunning photography, or a gourmet picnic. Your budget will help guide your decisions on travel, attire, vendors, and more.
Step 3: Narrow Down Your Location and Date (One of the Most Important Steps in How to Elope)
Once you have a dream in mind, narrow down your location options. Think about the places that feel meaningful to you as a couple. Research locations that fit your vision, whether it’s a national park, a scenic overlook, or a cozy Airbnb. Consider factors like:
Step 4: Decide on Your Elopement Style
Will your elopement be adventurous, romantic, bohemian, modern, or classic? Your style can influence your attire, florals, and even your ceremony script.
Step 5: Find Your Elopement Photographer
Start researching elopement photographers who serve the area (or areas) that interest you. It is also important to consider the style of photography you love and want your story captured in. Oftentimes, elopement photographers are more than willing to travel for their couples and can offer tips and expertise on your dream locations. Look for someone whose style resonates with you and who knows the ins and outs of elopement logistics. A photojournalistic photographer will document your day as it naturally unfolds, capturing real moments and emotions. Your photographer can also help with location scouting, timeline planning, and vendor recommendations.
Step 6: Book Other Vendors
Step 7: Create a Timeline for Your Day
Ideally, you will collaborate with your elopement photographer while creating your timeline, after-all you have likely never eloped before and won’t have the expertise they have. A well-planned timeline helps ensure your day flows naturally without feeling rushed. Factor in travel time, hiking if your location requires it, and moments for photos and celebration. My biggest tip would be to plan out the flow of your day, but leave room for spontaneity and adventure.
A well-planned timeline ensures your day flows naturally. Include time for:
Step 8: Secure Permits and Legal Details
Many outdoor locations require permits for ceremonies or photography. Check the rules for your chosen spot and secure any necessary paperwork. Don’t forget to research marriage license requirements for your state or destination.
Step 9: Plan Your Guest List (or Not!)
Elopements often mean just the two of you, but you can include a few loved ones if you wish. Decide who you want to share this intimate moment with and plan your invitations accordingly. Since the guest list is smaller, you can get creative with your invites without breaking the bank.
Step 10: Plan Your Elopement Attire & Details
Choose outfits that fit your location and style. Consider comfortable shoes, layers for changing weather, and accessories that reflect your personality. Don’t forget essentials like rings, vow books, and meaningful keepsakes. If you need elopement outfit ideas, I have a blog to help you.
Step 11: Capture Authentic Moments
On your elopement day, focus on each other rather than the camera. Movement and natural interactions create the most beautiful, candid photos. Whether you’re hiking, dancing, or watching the sunset, these genuine moments tell your unique story. Trust your photographer to guide you, but don’t hesitate to share your ideas or preferences. Including activities you love makes your photos even more meaningful.
Step 12: Celebrate Your Way
After your ceremony, celebrate however feels right-pop champagne, share a meal, or embark on an adventure together. This is your day, so make it uniquely yours.
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Legal Requirements for Eloping
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Tips on How to Elope
Stay adaptable: Weather and plans can change-embrace the unexpected for authentic, memorable photos.
Include an activity: Hiking, picnicking, or even playing music together adds depth and fun to your photos.
Pack smart: Bring essentials like touch-up makeup, snacks, and weather-appropriate gear, especially if you’re hiking or exploring remote locations.
Legal details: Check local marriage laws and permit requirements. Some couples handle legal paperwork separately and focus on the adventure and ceremony on their elopement day.
Where to Elope
When it comes to deciding where to elope, the possibilities are truly endless—whether you’re dreaming of dramatic mountain vistas, serene forests, or wide-open desert landscapes. Some of the most popular and breathtaking places to elope in the U.S. include national parks, coastal cliffs, and hidden gems in every region. If you’re looking for inspiration or want to find the perfect spot that matches your vision, check out my comprehensive guide to elopement locations.
For couples drawn to the wild beauty of the West, I also have detailed guides for Montana, Wyoming, Utah, and Texas—each packed with unique locations, planning tips, and real elopement stories to help you find your dream backdrop. Whether you want to say your vows in Glacier National Park, beneath the red rocks of Utah, among Wyoming’s iconic peaks, or in the heart of Texas Hill Country, you’ll find plenty of ideas and expert advice to guide your adventure.
Frequently Asked Questions About How to Elope
Question 1: Do we need witnesses to elope?
Requirements vary by state. Some places require witnesses, while others don’t. Check local marriage laws for your chosen location.
Question 2: Can we include family or friends?
Absolutely! Elopements can be just the two of you or include a small group. It’s all about what feels right for you.
Question 3: How do we announce our elopement?
You can send announcements after your elopement or plan a celebration with loved ones later. Your elopement photos will be perfect for sharing your story.
Question 4: What to do about family members opinions?
This is a hard one because every family dynamic is different. Ultimately, it is going to come down to the reason you guys are wanting to elope. If you are choosing an elopement because nature is really important to you, your family will likely agree that an elopement makes complete sense. Often, they will be just as happy with the idea of a celebratory reception after you return from your elopement. If nature speaks to you but family being present is equally important to you, you might consider a micro wedding in a epic location where you can get the best of both worlds. If you’re eloping because your family stresses you out (which is valid) respectfully hold your ground, tell your family this day is about you two and this is what you have chosen is best for you.
Ultimately, you are committing to your partner, not your family, as hard as that is for some to hear.
Question 5: How much does it cost to elope?
Elopements can range from a few hundred to several thousand dollars, depending on location, travel, vendors, and experiences.
Question 6: Can we elope internationally?
Yes! Just research marriage laws and permit requirements for your destination.
Now You Know The Basics On How To Elope
Eloping is about celebrating your love in a way that feels uniquely yours free from expectations or pressure. Whether your dream is a wild adventure or a quiet moment together, the most important thing is that your elopement reflects your love. With the right planning and a spirit of adventure, your elopement will be an unforgettable experience full of authentic moments and breathtaking scenery. If you want expert guidance or a photographer who will capture your elopement with heart and artistry, I’m here to help you every step of the way, contact me for personalized tips, location ideas, and photojournalistic coverage that tells your unique story.
